It is likely that if you’re buying your boyfriend's birthday present for the first time, or even the fifth time, you may not mind, in fact welcome a little help with open arms. There is no doubt that it’s hard to say what every guy will want, however this guy can help you make a few good guesses. Birthday presents in romantic relationships are difficult. This is because, you usually want your presents to be sentimental as well as practical and desired which make them trickier than presents for most other people in your lives.

The first thing to think of when debating about boyfriend birthday presents is to try and remember what your boyfriend has been talking about wanting.  It seems obvious, but just paying attention when your boyfriend says “it would be really nice if I would have…” or “I really like…” can give you loads of ideas.  Flipping through catalogs with your boyfriend or tagging along on a shopping trip with him can be even better, especially if you agree to go to some of the stores he usually shops at.  What merchandise does he pay a lot of attention to?  What does he pick off the shelves to look at before putting it back?  If the potential present is a new fishing rod or a warm jacket, you may not think these gifts are meaningful enough to be given as birthday presents to your boyfriend.  Think again.  Though any old jacket may not be meaningful, if you manage to get the exact jacket he wanted your efforts (hopefully) won’t go unappreciated.  He’ll realize that you’ve been paying attention, and that will mean something.

Boyfriend birthday presents usually differ considerably from girlfriend birthday presents in that most guys want their birthday presents to be useful; they can’t just serve as window dressing.  Candles that smell good probably aren’t going to cut it.  Neither are pretty picture frames.  However, this doesn’t mean that you can’t get somewhat luxurious.  But be careful, as most guys won’t want to end up smelling like girls.  However, lots of guys aren’t willing to pamper themselves at all, but they’re willing to be pampered.  Consider shaving or showering, things that your boyfriend (hopefully) does often, but often with lousy equipment.  Get him a good, sharp razor, some English Shaving Soap, and a good brush, and he’ll use your gift for years.  Make sure to get him shave soap as opposed to standard bar soap, and feel free to get creative with the scent.  Lavender may be a bit much, but Vanilla or Rum are great scents which won’t be overpowering.