Just like every holiday season, 2006 tends to be extremely hectic. I just can not go to plan for shopping with my eleven-month-old baby to take with me on every shopping excursion. As many of my nephews and nieces are teenagers, I also find ir really very difficult to know what to get for teens as gifts. For me, my parents are a complete mystery to me and never quite sure what to get for my adult siblings and friends. Definately, I would like to receive as a gift and I chose to present gift cards this year, but with a twist.

I got the idea of buying gift cards from AutismLink.com. I work with autistic children and I am a member of Autism Link. I receive press releases, educational events and general information about autism in emails through the site. One of the emails suggested that people buy their gift cards through AutismLink.com. Some of the proceeds from each gift card purchased through the site is donated to autism research.

 Just about everyone appreciates a gift card from their favorite store or restaurant, but presenting a gift card can be boring. However, gift cards that contribute to a good cause are wonderful to receive. It’s almost like giving two gifts in one. My friends and family were extremely happy to know that their purchases benefit autistic people and my best friend’s son, who is an adult with autism, was particularly proud of his gift.

Buying gift cards does not always seem like a very personal approach to gift-giving, but gift cards that benefit a good cause are. Next year, I am going to see if I can buy gift cards from stores that donate to other charities. Autism is close to my heart, but I know a breast cancer survivor, a woman who has a diabetic son and I have a dear friend who has Parkinson’s disease.

Buying gift cards that donate to each person’s respective charity of interest would be a little more thoughtful. I think that it would behoove many retail shops, restaurants and food stores to consider collaborating with various charities during the Holiday Season and throughout the year. For those of us who want to avoid crowded shopping malls but still want to give a thoughtful gift, this would be ideal. It would be even better if we could choose a charity from a list that the store offers.

Whether they benefit a charity or not, gift cards are still relatively boring gifts to give. There is no real drama in opening a gift card. This year I placed each gift card in Glad Press-n-Seal. Then I poured clear soap that I melted into a mold. After letting it dry for a few minutes, I put the protected gift card in the mold and finished pouring the melted soap into it. Each person got a bar of soap with a gift card from their favorite store floating in it. It was the talk of the evening.

There are several occasions that are appropriate for creative Irish gifts. You may know someone who is of Irish descent and you may want to give something extra special for his or her birthday. There are many trite and downright distasteful presents but you can still find great creative Irish gifts for that special person.

Using creativity is a wonderful way to show how much you care. Giving a present that requires a lot of thought and effort says a lot about your feelings and relationship to that other person. Many people of Irish descent are very proud of their heritage so why not choose creative Irish gifts for them?

Some presents may not be so well received. Avoid creative Irish gifts that are distasteful and insulting. I know plenty of people who immediately think of leprechauns, potatoes and alcohol. Items like obnoxious large mugs and ignorant t-shirts are not going to impress.

In order to truly touch the heart you most likely should do some research. I found out a lot about Ireland and traditions when I was asked to be maid of honor in a wedding. The husband was from Belfast and the bride is a friend of mine from college. The pair wanted to have a lot of the traditions of Ireland in their ceremony so I started to do my homework.

While I didn’t come up with great creative Irish gifts I did find a lot of interesting traditions from Ireland especially when it comes to weddings. I found out that a groom visits the bride’s family on the day before the wedding. They prepare the traditional goose dinner for him. This may be where the saying, “Your goose is cooked” comes from.

Other interesting tidbits included not letting the bride’s feet lift off of the ground. She should have at least one foot on the ground at all times. It was believed that fairies would steal her away. I was impressed with the many traditions but I was really looking for creative Irish gifts for the bride and groom.

I finally found a great item that will start a whole new tradition in the bride’s family. The magic handkerchief is carried by the bride on the day of the ceremony. It is later used as a bonnet for their first born child. The handkerchief is handed down to the first born daughter for her wedding and the cycle continues.

This is just one of the many creative Irish gifts that you can find if you look into it. I also made a collection of the wedding traditions from Ireland and framed it for the couple. I had to put all of that research to good use.